What should i do about this girl i met saturday night? girls what do you think?

so saturday night i was at the bar i always go to by my house. it was after mid night & i ran into a girl that knew me there (nikki) . her friend alisha came up to introduce herself to me. she told me she always saw me here and told me it was very nice to meet me finally.

im handicap and i get around in a scooter. i can walk & and live on my own as im independent . alisha told me its great to see me out & kept praisin me. she told me she didnt want to offend me and i told her that she wasnt. she told me she dated a guy that was paralyzed from the waist down and thought nothing of it. she was with a group of friends last night, her and i talked for awhile. i met all her friends including her bf.

she was happy we met and told me she wanted me part of their group. she kept telling me how great i was. she asked me for my # and called me then so i could get her #. i belueve in the golden rule so i dont want to interfere with her relationship. i just dont know what i should do if she calls me or i see her next. i dont want to get feelings attached if shes taken

at times i thought she was being too touchy with me (had her arm around my shoulder or rubbin my upper back) but realize she was trying to be nice.... i just dont know if she was doing this to boost her ego... im not goin to call her ill let her call

When she calls or you see her next, the best thing to do is not beat around the bush, but just ask her about her bf straight up. Say something like, "When I met your friends the other night, was that your boyfriend in the group?" Let her know you just wanted to make sure you two were on the same page. Reassure her that you like her and thinks she's a good person you'd like to get to know more, but just don't want to interfere in a relationship she may have, and want to make sure that it's addressed so problems don't arise later.